Gentle Readers . . . and Maxwell,
Last week I spoke with my very dear friend from high school. Sadly, her brother died, much too young. I also knew him in high school, although not well. He was a member of our school's elite singing group. He was never anything other than pleasant and kind.
He later married a good friend of his sister's, whom I also knew. Now she's a widow. They have children and grandchildren who will miss him.
He had continued to be involved in music as an adult and volunteered at his church's food pantry.
It's a terrible loss for my friend, and for their mother, who is 88.
I didn't know what to do, so I lit a candle in his memory.
Every evening since I learned of his death, I've lit candles in the front window of my house.
,Tomorrow night I'll light candles for all the dear lost ones of 2022.
I wish you all well for 2023.
Infinities of love,
Janie Junebug
Candles are part of every religion on Earth and I guess have been adopted by secular people too. Seems like a fitting tribute to me.
ReplyDeleteThe candles don’t change things but they do make a connection that’s very meaningful. Such sad news.
ReplyDeleteA touching and meaningful ritual, Janie!
ReplyDeleteThe candles are a nice tribute. It's always shocking when something like that happens.
ReplyDeleteAny time to die young is sad but at this time of year it seems especially so. What a lovely idea to light candles.
ReplyDeleteI like that idea of lighting the candles for the souls lost.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely way to remember people. Sadly, some windows will be blazing. Here's to a more hopeful year.
ReplyDeleteIt is a tough time for those who have lost loved ones. I am sure your friend is appreciative for you remembering and honoring her brother's memory. God bless you and your thoughtfulness. x
ReplyDeleteSmall, personal tributes like yours are the best, I think. May his loved ones find comfort and peace in the new year.
ReplyDeleteAnd you my condolences for your friend too! I like the idea of the candle lighting for the memory of loved ones. Happy New Year Janie.
ReplyDeleteThat's a lovely gesture, Janie. These small, personal acts of kindness mean a lot.
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