Juli at http://www.survivingboys.com/ has a question for me: What is the most positive thing that has come from your divorce?
I bet you have some interesting answers to this question, Juli. I hope you write a post on this topic.
This post is also for b., who probably won't read it anyway.
The most positive thing that has come from my divorce is that I am me. I know I am me. No one tries to force me to be something or someone I am not. The strength to be myself grows constantly.
I am Gaea and Cassandra and Heracles and Nike and Athena.
I can love the poet Sharon Doubiago, and she will not be taken from me and held up as if she is a trophy to own. I can love all my blogger friends, and you will not be taken from me as if I have no right to your friendship.
I am as sleek as a small cat and as beautiful as a big dog.
Infinities of love,