Gentle Readers . . . and Maxwell,
All three Wilson brothers are dead now. Dennis––the drummer, the cute one, the only one who surfed––drowned in 1983 when he was 39. Carl played lead guitar, served as the band's musical director, and produced many of their albums when Brian's illness left him unable to do so. Lung cancer killed Carl in 1998 when he was 51. Brian's death was announced today, June 11, 2025. Cause of death hasn't been announced, but he was being treated for dementia. His 83rd birthday was coming up June 20th. Tributes to his genius have poured in. John Cusack, who portrayed Brian in the 2014 movie Love & Mercy, described him as having an ear that heard the angels.
I published this post September 12, 2016, after Favorite Young Man and I went to see Brian Wilson in concert. It was a magical night, so I'll share it again now.
Infinities of love,
Janie Junebug
No introduction. He didn't need one. He and his band simply walked on the stage.
He slumped at the piano, overweight and far from the kid who created The California Sound.
It didn't matter. Within seconds, everyone in the St. Augustine Amphitheater wished "they all could be California girls."
He turned over vocal duties to the bandmate at his side, from-the-beginning Beach Boy Al Jardine.
A few songs from Al and then he said, This is the first song I ever wrote. I was nineteen years old.
Al's son, Matt Jardine, sang, "Do you love me, do you surfer girl?"
My son shouted in my ear, That guy has a great fuckin' voice. (The fruit doesn't fall very far from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil.)
It was true. Matt Jardine carried the vocals for the evening, backing up other singers or picking up in the middle of a line when Brian Wilson, seventy-four years old, reached the falsetto part that he once sang like an angel.
Matt Jardine would have and could have been the star of the show, but he was on the stage with the man who wrote the songs, the man who arranged the songs, the man who produced the recording sessions with a precision that defies my comprehension.
It's the Fiftieth Anniversary Tour of Pet Sounds, the album The Beatles admired so much that they responded with Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band.
Several songs in, Brian said, Now we're going to do Pet Sounds.
And they did. One song after another, with the exception of the pet sounds, but it's not exactly a song. Following God Only Knows (Our Song, meaning Sweet Cheeks and me), a standing ovation led Brian to say, Thank you for the applause. Please be seated.
Through the album they went, until he said, This is the last song from Pet Sounds.
I mouthed Caroline No.
Good Vibrations followed Pet Sounds, but the night wasn't over.
They sang one much-loved song after another, until my throat hurt from begging Rhonda to "help me get her out of my heart."
Brian Wilson didn't sing much, and when he did, often it was more talk singing. He stayed behind the piano that he didn't touch often. Sometimes he swiped his hand across his forehead because it's September in Florida and it's hot and humid. Once he raised his hands as if to conduct the excellent, excellent musicians. He started the audience clapping along to one song.
No, he doesn't do a lot, but he doesn't have to and doesn't need to because he is Brian Wilson presenting the work of a lifetime.
About an hour and forty-five minutes in, he sang Love and Mercy and left the stage the second he reached the beginning of the final note. The others wandered off the stage. As we shuffled out of the amphitheater I could see Al Jardine still talking to people in the audience.
It lasted forever, yet it ended in a flash.
Dementia is such a cruel illness. For the person who has it and everyone who loves them. I hope he is finally at peace.
ReplyDeleteHis wife, Melinda, died in 2024. Then his daughters stepped in to care for him. I think it had been a pretty long time since he could function on his own because of his mental illness and former drug use.
DeleteSo much hardship in his life and so much genius.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely. Nearly deaf in one year and no one knew what caused it, but there was always speculation his father's abuse when he was a toddler was the problem.
DeleteIt was sad yesterday reading of his passing. Thank you for sharing your post from 2016, a fitting tribute to Brian Wilson.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Michael. Seeing him was a joy.
DeleteWhat a legacy he left! RIP
ReplyDeleteNo kidding. On the lists of greatest albums, Pet Sounds is quite often ranked #2, beaten by Sgt. Pepper's.
DeleteI was never really a fan; I liked their old stuff but Kokomo ruined them, I think,
ReplyDeleteI do remember Dennis though; so cute.
RIP Boys
xoxo
I'm not a big Beach Boys fan (Mike Love seems like a jerk), but I'm a Brian Wilson admirer. The Beach Boys wouldn't have been anything without Brian. Love pushed Al Jardine out of the group in the late '90s. After that he performed with them for their 50th anniversary tour and for some other special events. Dennis was the bad boy and he was very cute.
DeleteWonderful tribute. Sounds like a great concert back in the day.
ReplyDeleteIt was an excellent concert. I texted my son last night to say how fortunate we were to see Brian Wilson.
DeleteSounds like a wonderful concert, Janie.
ReplyDeleteI never followed the Beach Boys much, but I still enjoyed their music. It was always on the radio. My favorite song of theirs was Good Vibrations! Farewell, Brian.
I wasn't much of a Beach Boys fan. It was Brian Wilson who inspired me--not to do the bad stuff he did, but to love and appreciate music.
DeleteI hadn't heard the news yet, first Sly now this. I know my mother adored The Beach Boys. And what a great memory you'll always have Janie.
ReplyDeleteIt's a wonderful memory, Mads. It was a great night, and I'm glad my son and I shared it.
DeleteIt must have been amazing to see him (and Al Jardine) live, even if he didn't do much!
ReplyDeleteIt was amazing. I didn't need Brian to do a lot because I knew it all originated with him. Al still sounded good.
DeleteHe was a brilliant talent
ReplyDeleteOh my, this is such a wonderful post. I mentioned my son on my post, he loved him too.. He did a cover of "Caroline No" on Spotify! And Carl and Dennis, both left us too soon. I noticed several TV stations showed a clip of "God Only Knows" with the name Brian Wilson underneath but that was Carl singing lead. I mean they were brothers and looked alike but how hard was that for them to get that right? Not to take away from Brian's incredible falsetto, it was amazing. And Carl! That voice! Have you ever read the book "The Nearest Faraway Place" by Timothy White? Please do, you will thank me! You were so lucky to get to see him live in concert. That memory should around wrap around you in a giant embrace.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kay. Yes, it was Carl who sang lead on God Only Knows. Not that hard to find out if you don't already know (as we do). I haven't heard of The Nearest Faraway Place. I will try to get it and add it to my gigantic to-be-read stack. The memory of listening to and watching Brian is indeed like a giant embrace.
DeleteThanks for sharing your memories of his concert. He will be missed.
ReplyDeleteI loved the Beach Boys music from the beginning. It defines my early years. Thanks for these memories and the tribute.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing that wonderful concert memory. I didn't appreciate the Beach Boys at the time as I do now, especially Brian Wilson. You were lucky to get to hear him. He will be missed.
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